It wasn’t too long ago that same-sex couples were denied the opportunity to open their homes to children who needed a family. Now, the Alberta government is allegedly denying a couple the chance to adopt children because of their conservative Christian beliefs about homosexuality:
An evangelical Christian couple have filed a court application alleging the province discriminated against them based on their religious beliefs by rejecting their application to adopt a child.
The Edmonton couple — whose are identified only by initials in court documents — allege an initial recommendation they be allowed to adopt was revoked after “interference” by the Ministry of Children’s Services, and that they were told their religious beliefs related to gender and sexuality were contrary to the “official position of the Alberta government.”
“If we did not change our religious beliefs regarding sexuality, to conform to the beliefs of Child and Family Services, we would not be approved for adoption,” said the woman in an affidavit filed Nov. 1 with Court of Queen’s Bench in Edmonton.
The couple’s identities have been redacted from the documents filed in court, but a copy of a Safe Home Study Report completed in February 2017 describes them as employed, owning their own home and having happy and healthy family and community networks. They indicated they hoped to adopt a child, or up to three siblings, between the ages of seven and 17. The Catholic Social Services worker who prepared the report said in an email she was “pleased” to recommend them for adoption.
However, the report recommended a “homosexual child” not be placed with the couple because of an assessment that though they said would unconditionally love a child questioning or exploring their sexuality, they would not support the “lifestyle,” which could mean a child may not feel accepted.
During subsequent meetings with Catholic Social Services and Child and Family Services, the couple said they made it clear they would seek counselling and support if their child was questioning their sexuality, but they could not encourage a lifestyle that “we knew caused a higher proportion of anxiety, depression, and suicide attempts than other lifestyles,” according to the affidavit.
On May 3, the couple’s adoption application was officially rejected, according to court documents.
They are asking the court to rule that their rights were violated, and for an order that they be approved as adoptive parents.
While I do not share this family’s beliefs about homosexuality, I also don’t believe a person’s religious or political beliefs automatically make a home unsuitable for a child – especially when the alternative is for the young person to remain stuck in the foster care system.
Of course we’re only hearing the family’s side of the story, and we don’t know if there are other factors which call their ability to parent into question. We’ll find out when the matter goes to court next year. But I am extremely nervous about a government deciding that being an evangelical Christian – or a member of any other faith with conservative views on sexuality – renders you unable to adopt.